Lala, with Jordan
I first wrote this post in October 2008 and used it again in 2011 under the title Lala and Queen Elizabeth II. I have re-posted
it a number of times, with variations, because Lala's story is one that should be told over and
over again. Today she is been celebrating her birthday. No doubt, the occasion is being marked at Punla, Ang Arko,
where Lala lives, the only L'Arche
community in the Philippines, in Cainta, Rizal, part of the
metropolitan sprawl of Manila.
The
Pope's Universal Prayer Intention for September 2014 was: That the mentally disabled
may receive the love and help they need for a dignified life. The truth is that
persons with mental or learning disabilities can teach the rest of us about the
dignity of life, as the photo above of Lala helping Jordan with his meal shows.
Let us show our service to the poor,
then, with renewed ardour in our hearts, seeking out above all any abandoned
people, since they are given to us as lords and patrons. (St Vincent de Paul,
used in the Office of Readings for his feast day, today.)
St Vincent de Paul, (24 April 1581 - 27 September 1660)
Simon François de Tours [Wikipedia]
Both Lala and Queen
Elizabeth II have have two birthdays, the real one and the official one. Lala’s
official birthday is 27 September, the feast day of St Vincent de Paul, and she
turns 41 today. Queen Elizabeth’s official birthday is celebrated in 53
Commonwealth countries, but not on the same date. Only the Falkland Islands
observes her official birthday on her real one, 21 April. In the United Kingdom
the Queen’s official birthday can be on the first, second or third Saturday in
June. She turned 91 on her most recent birthday.
Queen Elizabeth II [Wikipedia]
While there’s no confusion about the date of birth of Queen Elizabeth,
there is about that of Lala. The young Princess Elizabeth was born in a palace
in London. Lala was found shortly after birth in a trashcan in Cebu City in the
central Philippines. Those who found her took her to the Asilo De La Milagrosa,
the orphanage of the Daughters of Charity there. The Sisters noticed that the
little girl had Trisomy 21 (Down Syndrome) and took her in and raised her.
Since they didn’t know who her parents were they had to choose a name for her.
The Sisters chose 'Vicente' as her
family name, in honour of St Vincent de Paul, and 'Louella' as her Christian
name, in honour of St Louise de Marillac. The two saints founded the Daughters
of Charity in France in 1633. Lala, as all her friends know her, probably has
something else in common with St Louise. She was almost certainly born out of
wedlock, as the saint was, and, like St Louise, never knew her mother. I
suspect that Lala’s mother, probably very young and unmarried, panicked – her
panic possibly added to when she saw that her daughter wasn’t 'normal' - and
left her baby where someone could find her and take care of her.
And the Sisters made the feast of St Vincent de Paul, 27 September, Lala's official birthday.
St Louise de Marillac (15 August 1591 - 15 March 1660) [Wikipedia]
I first met
Lala in Cebu in 1992 at a Faith and Light celebration. We had just begun a community
there, after a retreat given by the co-founder of the movement, Jean Vanier, a
Canadian layman, in Holy Family Retreat House, Cebu City, in October 1991.
During the retreat he gave a public talk in the auditorium of St Theresa’s
College, as I recall, and a group of interested people got together after that.
The gathering at which Lala was present included members of Faith and Light
from Manila who had come to tell us more about the movement.
I could see immediately that Lala had a special gift: she’s a natural 'ice-breaker'. Though she seldom says anything, she lights up any group into which she comes, unless she’s in a bad mood, which happens from time to time.
Lala became a member of our Faith and Light community in Cebu but I lost contact with her when I went to Lianga, Surigao del Sur, in 1993 as parish priest and to Manila the following year to become vocation director of the Columbans. But one day when I visited the L’Arche community in Cainta, Rizal, known as 'Ang Arko', I was surprised to see Lala there. L’Arche, the French for 'The Ark' as in Noah’s Ark, was founded by Jean Vanier, in 1964 when he invited two men with learning disabilities, Raphael Simi and Philippe Seux, who had been living in an institution, to join him in a small cottage he had bought and was renovating in the town of Trosly-Breuil, France. Jean had no intention of founding anything, but he realized very quickly that he had made a commitment to these two men. One of them, I forget which, chose to live independently some years later, something he could never have done had he stayed in the institution and not met Jean. Out of these small beginnings has grown an international movement of about 130 residential communities where those with learning disabilities are enabled to live in a family-type situation and to develop their abilities to the greatest extent possible.
I could see immediately that Lala had a special gift: she’s a natural 'ice-breaker'. Though she seldom says anything, she lights up any group into which she comes, unless she’s in a bad mood, which happens from time to time.
Lala became a member of our Faith and Light community in Cebu but I lost contact with her when I went to Lianga, Surigao del Sur, in 1993 as parish priest and to Manila the following year to become vocation director of the Columbans. But one day when I visited the L’Arche community in Cainta, Rizal, known as 'Ang Arko', I was surprised to see Lala there. L’Arche, the French for 'The Ark' as in Noah’s Ark, was founded by Jean Vanier, in 1964 when he invited two men with learning disabilities, Raphael Simi and Philippe Seux, who had been living in an institution, to join him in a small cottage he had bought and was renovating in the town of Trosly-Breuil, France. Jean had no intention of founding anything, but he realized very quickly that he had made a commitment to these two men. One of them, I forget which, chose to live independently some years later, something he could never have done had he stayed in the institution and not met Jean. Out of these small beginnings has grown an international movement of about 130 residential communities where those with learning disabilities are enabled to live in a family-type situation and to develop their abilities to the greatest extent possible.
Jordan
and Raymon, another young man, were welcomed by Ang Arko when they were very young. Both have physical as well
as learning disabilities. Others have also been welcomed down the years. The
original house was in Manila but the community moved later to Cainta.
Lala and Hachiko, each looking more content than the other!
Sadly, this beautiful dog died not long afterwards, choking on a chicken bone.
In Holy Week
2001 I attended the international pilgrimage of Faith and Light to Lourdes as
chaplain to the group from the Philippines. Lala was one of the twelve or so
Filipinos.
The Easter Vigil was celebrated in the underground basilica. Some of the Old Testament Vigil readings were dramatized. During the account of creation when the words 'God created man in his image; in the divine image he created him' were read, a spotlight shone on a young man in a wheelchair. But what moved me most was when Lala was part of a group dramatizing the reading of the Exodus.
I simply marveled at the fact that a young woman who should never have been born, according to the 'wisdom' of so many, left after birth among garbage, was on the other side of the world helping to proclaim the Word of God to thousands of people, many like herself, and doing so with the joy that permeates her soul.
The Easter Vigil was celebrated in the underground basilica. Some of the Old Testament Vigil readings were dramatized. During the account of creation when the words 'God created man in his image; in the divine image he created him' were read, a spotlight shone on a young man in a wheelchair. But what moved me most was when Lala was part of a group dramatizing the reading of the Exodus.
I simply marveled at the fact that a young woman who should never have been born, according to the 'wisdom' of so many, left after birth among garbage, was on the other side of the world helping to proclaim the Word of God to thousands of people, many like herself, and doing so with the joy that permeates her soul.
Queen Elizabeth, Queen of Canada, in Toronto in
2010 [Wikipedia]
Ever since I was a small
child I've just loved the scarlet jackets of the Royal Canadian Mounted Police.
I used to draw Mounties with crayons but never developed into an El Greco or a
Van Gogh!
Queen
Elizabeth has been blessed by God with a long and healthy life, in which she
continues to serve her people with dignity. Though Queen Elizabeth is among the
richest people in the world, Lala, also with her two birthdays, enjoys even
greater riches, because the words of Mary’s prayer, the Magnificat, have been
revealed in her life: 'God has lifted up the lowly'.
The Visitation, El Greco [Web Gallery of Art]
Magnificat, (Luke 1:46-55) by Marco Frisina, an Italian priest who also conducts here.
Magnificat
anima mea Dominum,
et
exsultavit spiritus meus in Deo salvatore meo,
quia
respexit humilitatem ancillae suae.
Ecce enim ex
hoc beatam me dicent omnes generationes,
quia fecit
mihi magna,
qui potens
est,
et sanctum
nomen eius,
et
misericordia eius in progenies et progenies
timentibus
eum.
Fecit
potentiam in brachio suo,
dispersit
superbos mente cordis sui;
deposuit
potentes de sede
et exaltavit
humiles;
esurientes
implevit bonis
et divites
dimisit inanes.
Suscepit
Israel puerum suum,
recordatus
misericordiae,
sicut
locutus est ad patres nostros,
Abraham et
semini eius in saecula
My soul
proclaims the greatness of the Lord,
my spirit
rejoices in God my Savior
for he has
looked with favor on his lowly servant.
From this
day all generations will call me blessed:
the Almighty
has done great things for me,
and holy is
his Name.
He has mercy
on those who fear him
in every
generation.
He has shown
the strength of his arm,
he has
scattered the proud in their conceit.
He has cast
down the mighty from their thrones,
and has
lifted up the lowly.
He has
filled the hungry with good things,
and the rich
he has sent away empty.
He has come
to the help of his servant Israel
for he has
remembered his promise of mercy,
the promise
he made to our fathers,
to Abraham
and his children for ever.
'The clouds parted and Your light, oh Lord, shone down upon us.'
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