07 September 2024

'They begged him to lay his hand on him.' Sunday Reflections, 23rd Sunday in Ordinary Time, Year B

 

Mark 7:31-37 in Filipino Sign Language

Readings (Jerusalem Bible: Australia, England & Wales, Ireland, New Zealand, Pakistan, Scotland)

Readings (New American Bible: Philippines, USA)

Gospel Mark 7:31-37 (English Standard Version, Anglicised)  

Then Jesus returned from the region of Tyre and went through Sidon to the Sea of Galilee, in the region of the Decapolis. And they brought to him a man who was deaf and had a speech impediment, and they begged him to lay his hand on him. And taking him aside from the crowd privately, he put his fingers into his ears, and after spitting touched his tongue. And looking up to heaven, he sighed and said to him, “Ephphatha”, that is, “Be opened.” And his ears were opened, his tongue was released, and he spoke plainly. And Jesus charged them to tell no one. But the more he charged them, the more zealously they proclaimed it. And they were astonished beyond measure, saying, “He has done all things well. He even makes the deaf hear and the mute speak.”

Léachtaí i nGaeilge


Old Man in Sorrow (At Eternity's Gate)
Vincent van Gogh [Web Gallery of Art]

In the Second Reading today St James asks in his blunt way, For if a man wearing a gold ring and fine clothing comes into your assembly, and a poor man in shabby clothing also comes in, and if you pay attention to the one who wears the fine clothing and say, “You sit here in a good place”, while you say to the poor man, “You stand over there”, or, “Sit down at my feet”, have you not then made distinctions among yourselves and become judges with evil thoughts? 

In the autumn of 1982 I spent three months working in a hospital in a city in the the US Midwest. I noticed that a particular nurse always wore a pro-life badge, for which I admired her. But in the three months I was there as chaplain to patients and staff on the floor we both worked on she never spoke to me except at a weekly staff meeting. I was curious rather though not hurt by this and before I finished the programme I asked her if we could meet. I told her what I had noticed and expressed my admiration for her quiet pro-life stand. She was quite taken aback, as she had never been conscious of ignoring me. It turned out that she had once had a bad experience with a priest and had 'tuned out' on all priests. We had a very good conversation and ended up hugging each other.

The nurse had been making distinctions but was far from being a judge with evil thoughts. We can be such, by deliberately shutting out another person or group of persons from our life. But very often we are unaware of others or of their needs.

Fr Joseph Coyle 
(28 February 1937 - 18 December 1991)

One group of persons largely ignored in the Church, is the Deaf. (Those who are profoundly deaf refer to themselves as a group as 'The Deaf', with an upper-case 'D'. Nor do they describe themselves as 'hard of hearing'.) One of my late Columban colleagues, Fr Joseph Coyle from the city of Derry in Northern Ireland, worked for many years in what is now the Diocese of Kabankalan, in the southern part of the province of Negros Occidental, Philippines. Early in his time in remote parishes he became aware of the needs of persons who had lost limbs and helped many to get artificial limbs.  

But later he noticed that there were persons who were more or less totally isolated, even from their own families - persons who were profoundly deaf from birth or from early childhood. They did not even have a common language with their parents or siblings. Their deafness was experienced as an affliction by themselves and their families. They felt a sense of powerlessness.

In English the word 'dumb' has come to mean 'stupid' because of the perception in the past that those who used to be described as 'deaf and dumb' were stupid. 

Fr Joe Coyle then focused his ministry on the Deaf. In the late 1980s he set up a residence in Bacolod City, Welcome Home, for out-of-town students so that they could attend schools with special education for the Deaf. That particular need is now being met more and more in public schools in other cities and towns.

One of the services of Welcome Home Foundation, Inc. today is to send catechists to local public schools where there are profoundly deaf students. Some of these catechists are themselves profoundly deaf. Welcome Home also strongly encourages parents of profoundly deaf children to learn Sign Language and holds classes for them.

While based in Bacolod City from 2002 until 2017 I regularly celebrated Mass in Welcome Home, using my limited Sign Language and with the help of interpreters, some of them profoundly deaf. On the first three Sundays of each month the Deaf participate with interpreters in Mass in churches in Bacolod City, on the third Sunday in San Sebastian Cathedral.  On the fourth (and fifth) Sundays Mass is in the Fr Joseph Coyle Chapel in Welcome Home. The celebrant is Fr. Dominic Derramas, a diocesan priest who studied Sign Language while in the seminary. 

But I know that there have been times when parishioners and priests in various places have complained that signing interpreters were a 'distraction'. In some instances the Deaf have been made clearly unwelcome at Mass. Maybe some of those who made them feel such are already in 'St James territory' (Second Reading).

I do not know the source of the sorrow of the old man in Van Gogh's painting above, which expresses very painful isolation. But isolation is what many profoundly deaf persons feel, especially if they are seen as 'dumb' in the modern sense. And what must deaf persons feel if some don't even want to welcome them at the celebration of Holy Mass, our most important act of worship as Catholic Christians to our loving Father?

As in so many of the healing stories in the Gospel, we see Jesus giving his full attention to the person in need. We see him engaging physically with that person, using his very spittle in the act of enabling the man to hear and to speak clearly.

Again, as in so many of the healing stories, Jesus is bringing someone back into the circle. The man's deafness and speech impediment, the latter a direct result of the former, isolated him to a large degree from his own family and community. Now he was fully part of them again.

'E.T. phone home' scene

I remember seeing the movie E.T. the Extra-Terrestial with a young friend, Glenn, who is profoundly, though not totally deaf, due to Usher's Syndrome, which also affects his sight. At the time he was about the same age as Elliott, the boy in the clip above. I watched the movie through Glenn's eyes, with a deeper appreciation of what is involved when a profoundly deaf person and a hearing person are trying to communicate. It can be very hard work, but rewarding.

About thirty years ago I saw something very beautiful at the Home of Joy in Tayuman, Tondo, Manila, a home for children run by the Missionaries of Charity. I was looking for a particular girl who was profoundly deaf. I'll call her Maria. I found her playing with a group of other girls, all of them using Sign Language. But only Maria was deaf. Without being aware of it, she had invited her friends into her world of silence - and they, without being aware of it, had invited her into their world of sound. All were equal.

A very important detail in the gospel is that not only did the deaf man's friends bring him to Jesus but they begged him to lay his hand on him.

Many churches in the western world have what is called a 'loop system' whereby those who are hard of hearing and use hearing aids can participate fully in Mass and other services. Being hard of hearing is something that very often comes with growing old, and I am experiencing that myself now - I've been using hearing aids for nearly seven years now - but it is a very different reality from profound deafness, especially if that deafness has been there since birth or early childhood.

The soul of a profoundly deaf person yearns for the living God just as much as the soul of a hearing person. But do we, the majority who are hearing, really allow/enable the Deaf to participate fully in the Holy Sacrifice of the Mass?

The Last Rose of Summer
from Leroy Anderson's Irish Suite (1947)

Last Sunday, 1 September, autumn officially began here in Ireland, according to Met Éireann, the Irish meteorological service. We've had a rather poor summer but today the sun is shining and it is 20C here coming up to noon. Yesterday was a beautiful sunny day and it reached 24C here in the afternoon. However, I think that today is 'The Last Rose of Summer' weatherwise here and I thought I'd add this arrangement of the old Irish melody by Leroy Anderson. It captures for me the sadness of a farewell. But autumn has its own attractions and thank God for the four seasons in this part of the world which seldom experiences extreme weather of any kind.

May the glory of the Lord endure for ever; may the Lord rejoice in his works (Psalm 104[103]: 31).


Traditional Latin Mass 

Sixteenth Sunday after Pentecost 

The Complete Mass in Latin and English is here. (Adjust the date at the top of that page to 09-08-2022 if necessary).

Epistle: Ephesians 3:13-21.  Gospel: Luke 14:1-11.

Jesus Heals the Man with Dropsy
German Miniaturist [Web Gallery of Art; centre, left]

One sabbath when Jesus went to dine at the house of a ruler who belonged to the Pharisees, they were watching him. And behold, there was a man before him who had dropsy (Luke 14:1-2; Gospel). 




3 comments:

Mariette VandenMunckhof-Vedder said...

Dearest Father Seán,
Well, just yesterday I was reading a brief presentation my Pieter did for the Rotary Club 25 years ago. It was about the lack of speaking clearly into the microphone and being hearing impaired (due to heavy artillery during military time) it cuts out many! They never improved, nor got a good clip on microphone... Pieter struggled with that and that was one of his hardest things for getting singled out.
As for the sign language, you know how our thoughts are on that. So grateful for the Dutch that use the reading of lips and teach the alphabet by placing the fingers on the throat of the teacher in front of a mirror, feeling the vibration and mimicking the lips. That's how Pieter and I communicated with the deaf children in Indonesia that came to our home in search of a substitute Father and Mother...
Sign language singles them out from society and that is so sad as they only can communicate with another person managing sign language...!
The last rose of summer was emotional for me as Pieter lost a young colleague who sang with him and he died young from cancer. They now are together once again and must be singing!
Hugs,
Mariette

Fr Seán Coyle said...

Thank you for your comment, Mariette. Yes, we've had this conversation before! I'm watching a cricket match between England and Sri Lanka on TV as |I type this. Everyone watching it, at the stadium or on TV, understands some sign language, which is what umpires / referees use in all sports. And all of us use gestures in our daily lives to communicate in certain situations, when verbal communication would be futile. So sign language in a broad sense is not alien to any of us.

Yes, more and more children born with profound deafness are learning how to speak, which is certainly a good thing. And in the Philippines, and probably in most countries, profoundly deaf persons learn how to lip-read in addition to learning Sign Language. And many parents and siblings are also learning Sign Language, which means that the family has two languages.

As I see it, Sign Languages vary from country to country just like verbal languages. And Signing is the 'native language', as it were, of profoundly deaf persons who learn it when young. And for hearing people involved with the Deaf it becomes another acquired language. A profoundly deaf person who learns how to speak and who also learns Sign Language has an advantage over one who can only communicate verbally.

I'm writing as one who comes from a country where the English tried to suppress our ancient language, Gaelic, far older than the English language, and succeeded to a large extent, leaving a cultural scar that is still evident.

The more languages a person has the more equipped that person is in terms of being able to communicate. The profoundly deaf person who learns to Sign, to lip-read and to speak is better equipped in terms of communicating than one who learns only to speak.

Thank you again for all your comments, particularly the one above. Know that your beloved Pieter is in my prayers, as you are.

God bless

Father Seán

Mariette VandenMunckhof-Vedder said...

Dearest Father Seán,
As for the Gaelic, that is such a sad thing. A spoken language that had been carried over from generation to generation as the spoken word and then being taken away. There are many cultural scars I'm afraid.
The same as our Faith that has been handed over from generation to generation until the final generation(s) believe it has no value anymore. They all will be in for a very rude awakening when facing their Final Judge!
Faith is our comfort coat so to speak, in which we all are being kept warm and protected. We can't throw that away!
Any language is a window to the world and we need that as we cannot amputate us from everything around us!
Your prayers are much appreciated.
Hugs,
Mariette